Hi I am a 20 year old sinlge mother with a 6 month old daughter. I have been trying to find employment since I had to stop working in October 2011. My child and I have been staying with my mother and since I have no income but she has been trying to kick me out since December. She has given me until April to move-out and I dont want to have to go to a shelter. If anyone knows where I can find quick employment or living expenses please let me know my email is luvinbrown@gmail.com

 in response to strongwomen...   Only suggestions is ask a co worker to stay with them till you get your taxes or just email me ill give you more suggestions

Hi I am 22 years old with two children a three year old and 11month old life to me is so hecked a few months ago life was so great my boyfriend and I had our own apartment but last year he posts his job soour family had to split up so now I'm living ay my mom house with my children its been months and everyday my mom complains about us being here I do work but only four hours a day I had no babysitter until I begged my sister to watched them for me for 40 dollars a week but the problem is she stay far from where I live and work my car breaks down everyday my boyfriend let me borrow his car sometimes but his new job is very far so he need his car majority of the time I have no help or support from anyone else besize him and we both are young its only so much we can take I'm trying to be string for my children but I just wish my family was more help this morning my mom told me I have to find somewhere else to live if anyone has any advice I can really use it right now

Hi i live in Maryland i have noone i have a 1 year old daughter which the father wasnt there threw anything my whole family turned on me im 18 years old i cant work because i have noone to watch my daughter because i have no family i live in Maryland i tried to get on section 8 but there not accepting applications anymore basically my mom said me or my daughter can not live there anymore she doesn't care if we live in my car. It would break my heart to have my daughter live in a homeless shelter i cant believe im doing this or that all my friends and family are doing this to me. Can anyone help or know where they help single moms on housing? Or cheap apartment in Maryland? Please let me know because i have a 1month time limit and then my mom says we have to go email me marquita020411@gmail.com

I am 18 pregnant nad have to move need help my friend has section 8 on her and i cant stay there Trying to find a job so bad my mom kicked me out and disowned me have no food stamps and in high school on my junior year

 in response to Hopefulnewstart...   Have you looked into womens refuges these specialise in assisting women and their children who are escaping violence. I work in a refuge in Australia and we help and advise and offer crisis shelter. I know they have work in this area in the States so there must be some provision available but I am afraid I dont know the detail. Look up crisis line numbers and they should be able to point you in the right direction. We have helped many women turn their lives around.

 in response to bosslady19...   hi me and my wife can not have kids. we can help you out give you a some were to live and help you with your son you do not have to live in a car or sleep there no just email us and we will help you out preshawk@gmail.com

 in response to hopefulcina...   Hi, this is Linda. I wrote you last night. Its kinda weird I was looking at your profile and realized you are living in murfreesboro,tn. Funny thing so am I. my husband and I have lived here for 5 yrs now. please get ahold of me and we will try to help you. you can contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net
Thanks Linda

 in response to daveftl...   Hi My name is Linda. where are you guys from? my husband and I might be able to help. You can contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net

 in response to emely...   Hi, My name is Linda. where are you from? you are welcome to contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net

 in response to hopefulcina...   Hi My name is Linda, I live in Tennessee. what are you looking for and what part of Tennessee? I will help you any way I can. I am sorry for all that you are going through. you are welcome to contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net
thanks Linda

Help!!!!!! Im 22 yrs old and just lost a child due to stillbirth because of a mental disorder called Edwards syndrome. my entire family turned their back on me. i have nowhere to go. i have a job offer in kennesaw ga. important hoping and praying that i get it. i just need to find a place to stay. i have car but i have no money but im hoping and praying they don't come get ny car because im currently sleeping out of it. can someone please help me and tell what to do from here...i sleep outside of hotels in parking lots and scraping change just to keep gas in.my car to keep the heat on while im asleep. i haven't eaten since i.left the hospital which was 3 days ago. im an emotional wreck and i feel as if i can't go nowhere from here. please someone tell me some answers or where i can go to.get an apt etc with no.income. thanks in advance.

 in response to winterlyn...   We told welfare that were homeless and she is pregant and also told them about her income. Even brought paystubs but they told her she makes too much and that they have to cancel her application. Thanks for the help

welfare does have income limits but if they know your homeless n shes pregnant can help.go tothe housing dept in welfare n talk to them.be honest, tel them u have income, low income, n u just need help finding a place u cam afford.they usually give u the sec. deposit....as for sec 8, as long as your low income they help. the only bad thing is, there is usually a long waiting list that your put on.good luck, i hope this helps!!!

Hi. Me and my gf just found out she is a month pregant. I just lost my temporary job and was kicked out of where we were staying. Now were homeless with no one to turn too. we tried to get foodstamps but she was turned down for making 20 dollars too much. All her money go"s to her car and with out that.. Were doomed. I tried looking into the section 8 program but from what I see, they only help single mothers. Can anyone help us with Some info or advice? or maybe some temp shelter till we find out what to do? Please...

Anybody know anything for TN? im 20 years old 7-9 weeks pregnant i find out friday for sure. i am currently living in a hotel with my boyfriend the babys father. he has a job at a factory but goes thru a temp so he only gets like 8 an hour. i have been looking for a job for over a month already i dont have any valid work history which i think is why i cant get hired. i dont know what to do im scared of losing the baby, i have lost one before. i dont have any food other then ramen at the moment. and i know i need better food then that for this child. if anyone knows of some place willing to hire a person like me please let me know.

I am 21 years old. I am pretty much alone. I am pregnant with my first. I am in college. I am lost of what to do. My bf/the dad of my baby cheated on me our entire relationship with an escort. He wants nothing to do with the baby,which is fine. I need help. I don't know what i am doing. I am really scared. I can't tell my family because they will never accept this. I don't have anyone support. If you guys know of places or people i could contact please let me know. I am studying Biology in my University. I need to get out of this town because is so little and has absolutely nothing. People just pretty much judges all the time. I would like to move to a bigger city. California, florida, i don't really care as long as I can provide for my kid. I know Spanish and English, i understand Italian and Portuguese. I also played college tennis, and i have thought tennis in well knows athletic clubs, i just don't have my teaching license. I have nannied since i was 9 years old up to now. I just need to get away from everyone that does not want me to have my baby. If any of you have any advice please let me know. Thank you!

I am also a single mother of three ages 3,4 and 10. I am 30 years old currently not working. Desperatly in need of a job to support my kids. I currently am staying with my parents but constantly argueing with them. Sometimes fighting. They say they want me out but there is nowhere for me to go. Their dad is not around and could care less unfortunately. If anyone knows of any kind of assistance other than section 8 please, I would greatly appreciate it. I can't live like this anymore and its not healthy for my kids to hear it or see it. Please help me.

 in response to Gogglesglare...   Contact me I am willing to help!!srw517@hotmail.com thanks.

I am a woman with three children and college grad and no job . Im from Rochester, NY and in a very abusive relationship...... need a way out. I have family in other states like GA. NC. and Fla. but dont know how to start to leave this place. do anyone know help numbers in any of the states i have listed?

 in response to moser298...   I don't know anything about Michigan. I rather if I'm gonna relocate then I'd prefer to do it somewhere warmer.

 in response to abm79...   Would u be interested in relocating to mi

 in response to Gogglesglare...   Ummm, I am not sure where you are or what advice has been given to you. I know here where I am (In Mississippi) if you go file for food stamps, they ask for the fathers name and if you are recieving child support. If not, they take it from there. Ask around for what is out there Government wise for help. I KNOW how hard it is to go from living well, to living poor and having to seek help. The very first time I sat waiting my turn at a food pantry I cried like a baby. Just having to be there humiliated me, but I have learned that for those of us who REALLY want to get out of this hole and get back to where we were or even better then we must take what ever steps we have to. I have found (here anyway) that different cities around the area offer different help. The food pantry here is by the Methodist church and they give out monthly boxes full of stuff you actually will use even with MEAT! I also found that the government housing in some of the cities is NOT where I would want to place my child in, BUT, here in the city I moved to it is actually very nice and the waiting list only took three months to get us in. I also, through talking to a friend I have made here found out about all the little discounts I can get off of my internet.
We all have our moments of feeling as if our life will never get better and as you said F us all, but after the melt down is over, remember as long as you are trying as hard as you can and looking for help in all places you can that you are doing your best and you WILL provail!!

 in response to cutypie2006...   What state r u in email me moser298@yahoo.com

 in response to needhelp91...   Want to move to Michigan I can help u

 in response to jozma...   Email me at moser298@yahoo.com I can help u

Sry forgot to say I live in Michigan but would b willing to move u depending on where u r at

Is there anyone in CT?

 in response to moser298...   I'm in Ct

Email me at moser298@yahoo.com anyone that needs a real man and or dad that works for a liveing and that realy cares lots of love to give thanks

 in response to randybell...   Where ru at

 in response to abm79...   What state ru in maybe I can offer u a place

 in response to jovani...   I would love to help u out I am looking for a family I live in Michigan

ONTARIO CANADA trying to get a place in NEW BRUNSWICK
CLOSE TO MAINE

and a OPEN BORDER FOR THE MOST PART AT NIGHT

 in response to singledad1234...   integrity I MISSED A LETTER IN MY EMAIL

 in response to Gogglesglare...   i raised four alone and i am a man
I wanted one woman not six I wanted a wife with one friend for life
instead i got to be single at 28 and now i am fourtyfive
i lost two daughters to a cult and dont see them at all
my oldest is 24 and my son is 16
we are in canada so if you are YOUR welcome to come

we are willing to help and share what we have
integity@cyg.net if you just need to talk
or you can even call me to yell and swear and get mad
at the world I KNOW IT HURTS SO BAD
and YOUR RIGHT they dont give a shit
ITS ALL BEEN PLANNED

www.infowars.com
www.henrymakow.com
www.jesus-is-savior.com THE CHURCHES ARE NOTHING BUT PAID LIARS

Everyone agrees and applauds, but where's the help? There's still not enough programs. Get this. I'm 27 year old mom of 4 year old. My car just broke down and lost my job because of lack of transpertation. I try to make his deadbeat abusive father responsible and pay for anything. All that I'm left with is his child, my life threatened and him on probation from the domestic charges. I did what I was suppose to. Got him out! Now what???? It cost $450 just to file forms to start child support. I was abonded by everyone. Now what? Give my son away, and die homeless? What do I do??? I have no one. I came from a good home, I was raised republican, Christian with hi standards and ethics. I am now the person I was taught not to be. Not by my choices, but by the choices of people close to me that affected me completely. My life will never be. I'm only 27 and I'm starving, my baby isn't, I've lost 93 lbs, I can't buy clothes, but my baby is dressed, I can not afford cable, but my baby has his favorite movies. Why do I find the strength? When his father is let so loosely off the hook. I can't believe they charge money to file for child support. Don't you think I would have never applied if money was not an issue???? Just venting, this won't help either. Fuck you and fuck me, we're all so truly loved aren't we???

 in response to Kirbybuffy...   Oh man! Glad to know we are not alone. Its trully sad and scary out there. Hubby been out of normal field od work for 3 years and its been a struggle ever since and seems to get worse! Been looking for work just taking in any job, we have exhausted our life savings jusst to survive, and it breaks my heart! I honeslty don't know what to do anymore. Just got laid off once again, and denied unemployment (long story) I lay awake worrying so much! We know how to survive off very little, but surviving off nothing is not possible! We have a 10 yo and infant girl! What makes it harder is knowing just me and hubby could live in our car, but not the kids, its got to the point where we wonder if the kids would be better staying somewhere else while we stay in the car!? I just don't dont know anymore, I am so sad! You just feel numb after a while! It also kills me because its not bad choices at all, its hard luck. P--prayers!

 in response to bookworm2011...   well i only have two childen now
i lost two girls
and we are trying to have a farm in canada grow food
help others a DEPRESSION IS COMING and millions will be rounded up
and starved or executed

its not going to be fun in the usa I am glad this farm is in canada

but its close to the maine new brunswick border
so usa people can share this farm too

 in response to jovani...   where are you from? what state?

 in response to singledad1234...   I applaud you for being strong and raising your children alone..not many men today have that mindset, and sadly not alot of women either. I have to agree with you wholeheartedly that us women have to use common sense when dealing with men. We are the ones that can get pregnate, left with children to raise alone, and need to be really picky about who we procreate with. Even with a child, you can find a man to love you but wait for the right one and stop bringing more fatherless children into an already bad situation. It's like digging a ditch that gets deeper and deeper and your asking for help to get out but theres really no answer except to change what your doing, its not working so do something different. I learned this the hard way, thinking my ex husband would help raise our kids, he didn't..when I figured out that I was in this alone, I stopped dating losers..if he wouldn't help with his own kids, what could I possibly expect other men to do for my kids? I set the bar high, waited, made changes in myself and actually LOVED being alone..once I was self-sufficent, I looked for a man who loved God above all else, and wanted a family not just a wife. My now-husband raised my two older kids, set a wonderful example of a TRUE father and provider, and we now have two more children..but I waited until I knew he was in it for the long haul or I would have been raising kids again on my own. I pray that the women suffering and more so, the children, open their eyes, know they can do it alone until Mr. RIGHT comes , work on you, focus on your children and build yourself a support system. God doesn't want you to fail, he has more blessings for you than you can handle, but you have to turn to him and be willing to go it alone if you have to until that special someone comes alone..my heart goes out to you all, but be aware and don't let boyfriends trick you into having kids with no commitment..the thing that saved me and allowed me to get back on track after years of struggling financially was being married, the court recognizes you as a wife but not as a girlfriend. If I hadn't been married for over 8 years to my ex, He wouldn't ever had to split his 401k or investments with me. That gave me and my kids security that we needed after we no longer had his income..so think about your kids and put them first, they didn't ask to be here and deserve everything life has to offer. They should have two parents, but if they only have one and it's you, do all you can to make every moment with them be the best moment possible..Blessings to you all

me an my babyboy have no money or a place to live can many one help me out

 in response to OliviaDianne...   I'm 23.The same exact thing happend to me I wwas with my babys father for four years and then he wanted to have a family so I agreed he chickened out and left me while I was 6 months pregnant for a 18yr old girl then he came back two months later trying to pretend like it never happend. Ughh this is a horrible situation as it causes painful feelings. The advise I give to you is time goes on life goes on, find a therapist I did . Have them lay out some options with you and see what you guys come up with. Stay strong !! U are a independent woman who can make it! You don't need him!! Be brave. May god be with you and help you find a clear path.

 in response to Kirbybuffy...   May God bless...you & your family are in my prayers...thanks for the encouraging sharing!

all i can say is help i have three kids i need to move beie for he got out r i can b

 in response to montedreams...   Amen!!! I agree. I just came across this site today, after looking for resources for the homeless, low-income housing, etc. At first I was so thankful, feeling God had answered a prayer. Then as I'm reading, I noticed that some people leaving comments are really mean & hateful. How dare they be so un-caring to someone that is already feeling down & totally hopeless. What's the point? That doesn't help them. I'm sure they have already had a huge dose of tough love. They are here in search of HELP....not a chewing out by some smart mouth that doesn't care about what they are going through. If u can't say something nice, don't say anything. I don't understand people who enjoy being disrespectful to someone that has done nothing to deserve it. My heart just sings when I get the chance to help someone in need. I mean, what else could be more rewarding. I don't have much to work with myself right now, but there are lots of ways to be a blessing to someone other than with money. I was shocked to see so many people are in the same situation as I am, if not worse. I'm not as young as most of the ones I've read about here, but I do have a child that is 11 yrs. old. My husband lost his job in Sept. We don't have any transportation, & we live in a very small town that has next to no job opportunities. Similar story.....we got behind on our rent & have now been evicted. We don't have anyone that can help us. Our church has helped us out alot already. And we don't have a clue where we are going to go. We live in Texas. I have been looking online for some kind of resources for housing, but haven't found anything. What bothers me about it is my son having to suffer. My husband & I could just tough it out, pitch a tent somewhere, sleep in our car(if we had one). We would just have to make due, but I can't put my son in that position. My 22 yr. old son lives 300 miles away & is going to TRY to bring me an older truck he's not using, but I don't even have any gas money to help him with. And unless I can find him a ride back, he won't even be able to bring it. I didn't mean to post this much info. but this is the only site I've found where you can tell your story. And it may possibly reach someone that might could help or have info that would be helpful. Well thank you, & my prayers are with you all.

 in response to krox13...   Have the father of your kid(s) to man up & provide a place for your kids. Do this by making sure they pay child support or go to jail.

Hi im currently staying at a freiends house but i need a house asap i am 18 and have a 2 and a half year old and am 18weeks pregnant and am in desperate need of a house for me and my kids can anyone give me any advice or anyone to call it would be much appreciated

Hi I'm new to this site but I'm desperate for help. I'm 32 with a beautiful 19mo baby and were in need of a place to live. I'm currently staying with family and its not a good situation. I'm on waiting list at shelters but nothing. The town I'm near and in there's very little help. I'm looking for work to get on my feet but its been hard. Like I said I'm staying with family and its an extremely stressful difficult situation. In addition to there being no room for
us at all. If someone can help or knows of anything. I've also tried low income housing but the wait list for that is at least 2yrs.

unsure of anything to do i have 3 kids an i am in ky but things at my house r so bad right now i want to pack us up an just move away cause i feel as if i cant take anymore but i no god gives us no more than we can handle but LORD i jus dont no how much more i can do i need to start a totally who new life with jus me an the kids im so unsure of anything right now would love some advice any please an jus say a prayer for me an us